Virtual Healing Summit
October 19th, 2010
Telesession notes
Many thanks to those of you who sent in submissions for the session on Resonating with Forgiveness.Using the Resonance Repatterning® system for creating change and coherence in our lives, we began the session with the need to be Oriented with each other. When we are oriented, we can benefit from hearing information, listening, taking in information…lots of good stuff. Even being oriented with the speaker or who is speaking. If we don’t resonate with the speaker or what is being said, we will not take in the information.
In this system, we identify the limiting beliefs we resonate with so that we can transform them into coherent beliefs and actions that we want to resonate with for better coherence in our relationships with each other, our families, our businesses.
I will present the statements as they came up during the session but I will also show ON or OFF next to the statements. When an ON is shown, it means we resonate with that statement after the session was completed. When an OFF is shown, it means that we do not resonate with that statement after the session was completed. Please note that if you were not in the session, read each statement and take in each statement. You can actually retro-intend this session so that you get the full benefit of the session even though you did not participate in it consciously. That is, you can bring the benefits of the session into your life just by reading the notes and intending to create change for yourself.
UMB ON (means an umbilical check as this issue goes way back to early childhood and most likely it is a generational pattern set forth in our unconscious).
Orientation
ON My adult aspect is ready to receive 100% benefit from this session.
ON I feel welcomed, loved and accepted. My presence brings pleasure to others. I welcome others with pleasure.
Self-Image Repatterning
This repatterning helps to clear any negative image we have of ourselves and how we can move and resonate with things that we know we like about ourselves. So initially, we check what we identify with not liking about ourselves and what our parent(s) may have imagined us to be or not to be. Some of these statement came from the submissions.
UMB OFF I forgive myself for memories of poor parenting.
UMB ON I matter to my family and relationships beyond.
And for what our father’s image of us was/is:
ON (for the positive view)My father acknowledged me when he said he was happy having daughters.
OFF(for the negative view) My father wanted a son and never thought I was good enough.
OFF I was too bossy and pushy.
OFF He thought I was a pain in the ass.
OFF We communicated differently so he didn’t understand me.
Perfection came up in that our father wanted to live his life through our perfection…we had to be perfect:
OFF I hid and sacrificed who I am in order to be loved by my father.
We were out of phase with a positive quality of the planet Mercury:
ON I communicate effectively.
What do we like about ourselves?
ON I listen well and get the other person’s point of view.
UMB ON I am sensitive to other people’s feelings.
ON I open my heart so I may bring in love and new opportunities in my relationships.
Positive Actions to anchor in the new changes:
ON I hold my palms open when speaking with others.
UMB ON I speak up.
ON I couch what I say and use open ended suggestions that are non-threatening.
Two positive images to bring into our consciousness:
ON I am filled with gifts and talents.
ON I fully express my gifts and talents.
The Modality needed was to do a Fusion. In this Fusion, confidence, acceptance, and truth were fused into our physical, emotional, and mental bodies, into the Meridians, the heart, liver, gallbladder, subtle bodies and the mystical axis. These are all physical and energy bodies that make up who we are and can have blockages in them. So confidence, acceptance, and truth were fused into these areas when I read the following:
‘Remember, appreciation of yourself leads to love and when there is love you are free from of all pain because you then forgive and forget. Deeply feel some kind of appreciation for yourself. Breathe it in. Expand with love and appreciation; feel yourself floating in love. Once there is love, you no longer know who is the giver and who is the receiver. There is only love.
Deeply appreciate every aspect of yourself, all your life experiences, of all people and God. Allow this love, which is who you are at your core, to evaporate all pain and all negativity, as easily as the sun evaporates the morning mist.’ From the Fusion process, by Chloe Faith Wordsworth 2000.
Be silent while this integrates.
When I reflect back to the beginning of this session, I see why the Orientation statements came up. We discussed on the call how in relationship with a family member, partner, or loved one, we need to be on the same page with each other in order for both parties to ‘hear’ each other gently, lovingly, and safely. If we don’t, one of us will feel invalidated and then nobody hears anybody. I hope this session will support you in your communication style with your family member
